Realised once again i'm the lucky one. Haha. It's kind of sad that parents could no longer understand their children. Well, 无风不起浪, 事出必有因; 冰冻三尺, 非一日之寒. Haha, i guess i won't have the chance to write those anymore. Anyway, everything have it's reason. I realised all sorts of problems develop with the lack of communication. I always believe that communications will sort out problems. It's always both parties refuse to talk it out; even one party refusing is already enough to make things worse. It takes two hands to clap. It's not like i have seen the world or anything, but based on the stories i know, it's always this case.
Communication can help solve the problem. Then it's a win-win situation already. However, looks like no one likes this win-win thing. Face it, the world ain't perfect. Nothing will go according to plan perfectly - absolutely nothing. I still held on to that hope that at least with communications, things will turn out better. If you say between parents and children, it's generation gap, that's an excuse. What about between other relationships? Friends and so on? It's still the lack of communication. I don't know. It won't be surprising if i become a social worker next time, along with a pilot! xD Maybe then it will be easier to help people communicate. At least the certification is there, there's a higher chance people might listen.
I used to judge people by how they appear to me - their attitude and so on. Although now i still do, it's only to strangers only. You can't expect me to find out more about everyone i see right? LOL. People i know, i try to find out the reason behind it all. Maybe sometimes i still judge by how they appear to me; well it's the most easiest method to do so. I'm kind of lazy you know. xP It's always after you understand the story behind it; that's when i look at things from another point of view. Somehow i can't stand misunderstandings. It ain't fair to both sides. Well, but i respect privacy a lot. So i won't say anything till i get the permission to do so. I want to clear the misunderstanding, in another way. Too bad, i don't go around telling others what people told me. I don't like people doing that to me as well, so yea.
Escaping is the easiest way to make you happier... but you will have to face your problems someday. Question is how?Hope things will turn out better for them! All the best! xD
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